ACT LIKE A LADY THINK LIKE A MAN ~ Book review

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Yeyyy! This is my first book review. I love and read books, not because I had the chance of being a literature student, I was never one, but because I just want to 'know'. I've come across a lot of book (a lot of us have) but I will only be sharing my view on a few of them. I will select books I think will help people address
their problems or help them deal with the world full
of people with problems. I will also review books
which everybody else thinks are useful or helpful.
  I read the first book on my list after I saw the movie 'Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man', so you can guess the title of the book.
 Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man addresses what men really think about love, relationship, intimacy and commitment from a Steve Harvey's view. Steve Harvey talked extensively on how 'men' think and he answered a lot of the common questions inspired by the many acts that seem to be confusing from men. 
  Of course, no man has a perfect view on relationship, but it is essential to know some basic perspective of each gender since relationship is simply about the interaction between both genders.
  Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man mentioned three ways by which a lady can identity a man who loves her; 
1. By his profession - any man who loves you will be able to tell anyone that he does, ''Look, man, this is my woman” or “this is my girl,” “my baby’s mama,” or “my lady.” In other words, you will have a title—an official one that far extends beyond “this is my friend,” or “this is__________ (insert your name here).”
2. By how he tries to protect her - When a man truly loves you, anybody who says, does, suggests, or even thinks about doing something offensive to you stands the risk of being obliterated. Your man will destroy anything and everything in his path to make sure that whoever disrespects you pays for it.
3. By his provision - 'That is one of their major role—our purpose'. 'Society has told men for millennium that our primary function is to make sure our families are set—whether we’re alive or dead, the people we love need want for nothing. This is the very core of manhood—to be the provider'.
     According to Steve Harvey, it doesn't matter if a man is a CEO, or a CON or both, everything he does is filtered through his title ( i.e who he is), how he gets that title ( what he does) and the reward he gets for the efforts ( how much he makes). These three things make up the DNA of manhood... 
  I've had a lot to learn from this book and it's movie, kudos to Steve Harvey...
Watch out for the next book to be reviewed, before then, keep reading. 
~ cheers ~

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